You can should what you want to be, you can should what you want to do, you can should what you want to have but alls come from your mind.
When you were young, you may thought what I want to be when I grow up. At the time, it just a dream. When that time pass, you don't think to be like that. Your mind have changed to another one that are interesting. If you stop thinking for a while you may know that it's not at all that you want.
"Love", this word is powerful. Do you learn how to love yourself?
This are easy ways that you can do for yourself. You should select one that is benefit to your health. You should do one that make you stronger likes sport. You should do one that make you feel happy.
Let start love yourself before sharing love with other.